How to Get any Girl

All girls are different. So none formula would apply for every girl. But what I am writing here is what girls like me like to have in a man, so i am going to write keeping that thing in my mind and what I feel would work on most girls but not all girls.


1 First Impression : First impression is last impression as they say, so try to be your best but please do not try to copy someone else. Don't try to show off what you are not. Most girls like guys who try to be themselves and not try to be someone they are not. Be yourself is the first thing in impressing a girl.


2. Friend First : Girls usually do not fall for strangers. Some might but it wont last long. Net relationships wont last for ever in most cases and they die out before the blink of an eye. First of all you should be visible to her and if she is in your office, try to smile ( a genuine smile) when ever she enters your room or where ever you may be like in canteen or in class room. But do it in limits, don't always be going up to her and smile or she would be scared of you. If you feel she is not noticing you then you can go and say in a very friendly way Hi Monica or what ever her name is. Now try to make friendship with her. Once you are real nice friends with her then only try to ask her out for a date. Don't shy or be afraid. Most of time girls want to date their best friend or very good friend but they need confidence that if relationship doesn't go beyond a point or there is a break up they wont loose a good friend.

3.Give time to yourself: Leave aside very insecure girls or very dominating girls then most girl would not like if you make them your whole life and would always be sticking to them like a fly sticks to sweets. You should have your own friends, hobbies, interests and not what girl likes should be your whole and sole aim. Of Course you should take her likes and dislikes in to consideration but don't make yourself revolve around her.

4.Communication: Most guys loose out esp Indian guys because they try to dominate too much. Now this is fact so Indian guys don't go after me for writing this. Most important thing for a girl in a relationship is how much she can talk to her guy. How much he listen to her even if she is talking totally nonsense which we talk most of the time.Girls like to know what guys like and what they really want to do in life and what excites them. Try also to talk about what girl like and what excites them.Girls would always like those guys more who show genuine interest in what they say. Now if a girl ask you to do something which wont take much effort on your part then please don't try to question her like why should i do it or what benefit would you get out of this or sorry i don't like doing these things. These are bib put offs and may make a girl take a very poor view of you as she wont see a husband qualities in you. She knows this thing she has asked wont take much effort from you but she is always looking if you would do this to just please her or not.

5. Flirt: Flirting in India or countries like India is taken as bad thing but everyone likes little bit of flirting. By flirting i don't mean that you start describing her anatomy or start telling her vulgar jokes. When you meet a girl you like make an eye contact and smile a little.Try to be causal and be relaxed as the girl is more nervous than you are and by relaxing you show the girl that you are in complete control of not yourself but also the situation there. Have nice conversation but don't go over board in saying things that might get her take a poor view of you and first meeting may end up as last meeting.

6.Touch her: Now dont take vulgar meaning of touching her and you dont have to hug her tight as soon as you see her but there are ways to start things like giving her your hand when she is disbalanced or you both are walking on an uneven surface, or like holding her coat while she tires to get out or in it. If you have gone to a very crowded place ( indians must be knowing it , like Trade fair in Delhi) where there is lots of pushing around, take her hand and try to sheild her from pushes from other people. All these things make girl feel very warm inside but please dont try to do something more than this or it would make girl feel that you are only after one thing and can lead to bye bye for ever.

7. Compliments: Compliments can win a lot of hearts but dont be cheap or vulgar in compliments.Be truthful in compliments. Dont tell her you look better than miss world when both know this is white lie. If you keep giving compliments which would appear lie to girls then she wont think much of your compliments. Girls like that if like she has a new dress then you notice and compliment her on it, or she has a new nail polish or hair style. Now donot compliment on her assests right from start or it would be a big negative unless you are looking for a girl who likes to be a just a sex object.Try to compliment on her personality or nature or things like this or if a girl is good in something like say cooking and you have tasted her cooking then do it.

8. Ask her out: Invite her to go out with you once you have gain confidence of hers. Try to take her out where you both feel comfortable to go. Dont take her out in darl place or at a place which is lonely, because she would be nervous going there on first date. Try to be gentle and try to know where she would want to go. I donot think going to a movie on first outing is a good thing. Ask her preferences. Take her out for a lunch because in India girl may not go for dinner as she might be afraid of you and her parents too returning late in night. Talk to her a lot , listen to her too. Donot go to a fancy place, in case girl thinks you are trying to show off her money but donot take her to a very cheap place too. And for god's sake dont go Dutch.

9. Dont try to be superior: Even if you are far better than her in brains, studies, money or anything, dont try to throw it on her face that i am lot better than you are. DOnt try to joke on her parents, soblings or friends. This is a big put off. She may trip off of might trip the glass of the table when you go for lunch, dont yell or say something like you are so clumsy or anything that would put her off. Try to perk her up if something unplanned and unpleasent happens.

10. Laugh: Make her laugh. This is the most important thing. Like in India we have a saying Larki Hansi to phansi, meaning if a girl laughs she is yours. When you make her laugh, it breaks many barriers, so remember lots of good jokes before you go out with her. Jokes work far more than all the poems you throw at her. I get countless add request on social networks and 80% start with a small poems, yet the best friends i made online were the ones who made me laugh and not who sent me romantic poems. Yes poems have their place in warming heart but if you send first message with a romantic poem then i dont think it is going to work.
So my friends i hope it should give you some insight of what most girls ( atleast Indian or Delhi girls) think and i hope when you find someone who attracts you then you would keep these 10 points in mind.